Double the pleasure, double the work? Having twins or multiples is exciting, but it can also be overwhelming. Here are some tips on coping with two or more babies at the same time.

- Get two (or more) of everything, if you can afford it, and think about what can be shared, such as the changing table.

- Try to feed your babies at the same time, so you’ll have time to do other things.

- Get help from anyone who will volunteer time and equipment.

- Join a multiples group such as the Mothers of Twins Club.

- Treat your babies as individuals. Emphasize the things that make them unique, and encourage others to do the same. Try not to compare your babies.

Quick Tip: Similar but Different

Even before my twins were born, I joined the Mothers of Twins Club in my city. They gave me a head start on what to expect. The best thing I learned was to treat my babies individually not as a pair, and to help them develop their own identities. Although I was tempted, I didn’t dress them the same way, didn’t name them rhyming names, and didn’t talk to them as if they were one person. I called each child by name (instead of saying, “the twins”), and I made an effort to spend alone time with each of them. I’m sure they’ll be close—they really love being with each other—but I also hope they’ll appreciate how unique they are as human beings.

 

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