Very soon you are going to start dating and you won’t give up until you find the one. You will test the wisdom of that choice against the Matchmaking Equation before you get in too deep and you will take corrective action if necessary. You will fall in love with your ideal partner, I have no doubt, and you will build the foundations to a relationship that will be happy, rewarding and permanent. You will make it to magnificent twosome ness and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise or knock you off course.

This is not just positive thinking going on in the forefront of your mind; this is your future. But now that you know for sure you’re going ahead with the Countdown approach to romance, it’s only natural for second thoughts to begin to creep in to the furthermost corners of your mind, just as sure as if someone had thrown cold water all over your plans. You begin to worry about how you will cope and you become anxious at the prospect of dating. Anxiety is the last thing you need when you go out on a date, so we are going to deal with it here in this article by preparing you properly for what is to come so that you have nothing to be anxious about.

Finding the right partner is a serious matter because it can greatly enhance the meaning and quality of your life and yet it is attained by simultaneously doing two things that might appear to be opposites. On the one hand, you need a definitive and workable plan – you have that in your hands – and you should put it effectively into action to be sure of succeeding. On the other, you must be relaxed, easy-going and anxiety-free so that your date finds you delightful to be with.

How are we going to deal with these opposing tensions? In two ways: by getting ready for what’s to come and by smoothing away your fears, to enable you to be on top form for your date. When you are confident that you know what to do and how to do it you create a frame of mind in which your worries tend to let go and drift away naturally, because you remove the anchor of self-doubt to which your doubts and anxieties cling.

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